There is no shame in feeling shy. However, it is not really doing anything good for you to be shy in the bedroom, right?
Well, if you really want to experience the best sex in your life, then you will need to do something about it. You see, one of the great things about long-term relationships is the fact that couples who are together and who know each other stop being so shy and instead, they experiment!
And that is something what you should not be ashamed of!
You see, the key to making the most of the sexual experience is not being shy. Not being afraid to expressing yourself sexually. I mean, you need to learn how to communicate with the other person. You see, you cannot expect him to know what you want. You need to tell him! And please, do not think that it is inappropriate.
I know that you are probably trying to be polite and everything, but this is not how things work. You need to act. You need to take things into your own hands.
And do not be afraid to experiment. Although, the first time should probably be just about you two, so please do not scare the guy away by trying to be too cool and too sexy. However, you can spice up things later on! And you definitely should! Whether you get a sex toy, watch an erotic movie or try some aphrodisiacs! Nothing is forbidden! As long as you both discuss it and agree, you can try anything!
However, and this is important, never push yourself into doing something you do not want to be doing. If anything is not making you feel good or comfortable do not feel like you have to be doing it. Your partner would never ask you to do it if he knew that you did not like it!
Well, we hope that you will make the most of the night! Just relax!